Observing the Mire II

October 6, 2006 - Friday

Current mood: satisfied
Category: Life

For the past few days I've been thinking about my last blog, and what I have realized is that I am a work in progress...we all are. I don't know that I'm going to be able to reconcile the issue of always recognizing the emotional location of a person when I'm dealing with them. I think that's the whole point of friendship and loving each other. It's not so much about psychoanalyzing a person in order to try and read between the lines...which as you know I don't enjoy...it's more about being willing to let a friend be human. The reality is that none of us will be happy and cheerful all the time. We should never lose our joy, because that comes from knowing Christ, but the truth is that hard times will come and it's okay if we act a little crappy or grumpy now and then. The true test of our ability as a friend is not so much reading the mind or emotions of our friends, but choosing to either not take their crappiness personally OR choosing to take up the issue at a later time when the feelings aren't so raw and tender. It's all about choices and timing. So I think that's where I'm at for now on that subject. If any of you have any more views on this I'd appreciate your comments.

Looking forward to our next chat,

Aunt Steph

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